Children thrive on routine, they know when to expect what. Child's frustration usually is caused by the lack of knowledge. The genius of children is that they accept that what they do not know.
I soothe myself with a routine as well, but my frustrations have a different source. I have a grid of false axioms that I orient myself around. Now, since axioms are largely false my grid is often broken. So for the 2011 and on I am going to rename my axioms to "hypothesis". I hope that will help me become less judgmental about people and events in my life. I suppose that would make for a better support net.
So goodbye ultimatums, hello compromises.
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